In foreign novel, classics regular meeting sees such occasion: The stranger of skyline be reduced to poverty pours out words from one's heart each other, they say ah the nest that draw out a heart child ah, they him heart is medium most the secrettest thing tells each other. See here every time, I can think, these strange “ foreigner ” , they can feel such “ safe “ before stranger actually, and such occasion, in the life of a Chinese, it is very infrequent. Chinese normally distrust stranger, a typical Chinese opens his mind very hard to the person that have never met before. In other words, if a Chinese to stranger draws out heart nest suddenly child, this itself is a little clammy.

Chinese distrust stranger, but be in usually, the gentleman that the Chinese believes him or madam. In an average Chinese household, love perhaps is talked about rarely between husband and wife, but they talk about respective job and working unit —— to talk about the trouble in respective job likely, analyse the human affairs dispute of the office, they are encouraged each other, give an idea to think way, good husband and wife with respect to a pair as facing the world put-up person. A person faces the world that his place cannot trust, bearing enormous pressure, wife or the husband, it is a Chinese normally in the life of only possibility pour out an object, had an ideal bend auditor, also do not look for psychological doctor with ground of costly take time probably.

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