The important matter is sober, bagatelle is muddleheaded, not excessive depend on, also spend interpose nevertheless
After old people is retreated from working station, life circle decrescent, what a very short time gets along basically is the spouse, family member such as children. When old people is handling a family to concern, should be with “ harmonious ” expensive, solidarity is attached most importance to.
Often come husband and wife more be in love
Life of happy husband and wife has very important sense to old people mental health, also be the one big happiness of old people. Conjugal love of husband and wife is about each other is respected, side of letter of each other love, each other, each other, each other comforts, each other exert oneself, give-and-take and each other forgive. 8 each other of this “ in ” , each other is respected, each other love is a foundation, side of each other letter, each other is motivation, each other comforts, each other exert oneself is conditioning agent, forgive of give-and-take, each other is a magic weapon. Had these, can avoid conflict, dominate oneself sentiment.
The person arrives senile, the body is feeble with each passing day, need somebody gives on the life take care of, the attaching between the old partner appears necessary. Old two get along for a long time, get used to each other life mode each other, old experience harships, share hardship, develop common love again to filial education, should cherish more the affection of the attaching between each other.
Old people has the need of sexual life even. What the sexual life of old age points to sex appeal not purely is contented, satisfy a kind of feeling that thinks to still have need each other however. Although a little senile husband and wife lives together, but interrupted sexual life, caused physiology and psychogenic disorder. Accordingly, the mood with due and happy old people, know scientific knowledge of the gender, older life is happier.
Love son is about to love son's wife
Some old people hope children does not want grown adult, because be jumped over greatly more not obedient, be in especially after marrying, lost the child it seems that. Do father and mother actually should think some, requirement children resembles in one's childhood in that way attaching parents is not actual. Luo Su of philosopher of no less than says: “ old people does not want beyond the mark attaching to the child, ability spends good old age. ”
Wait as a result of experience of viewpoint of value, life different, between two acting people often appear easily acerber contradiction. This communicates an idea with respect to need, parents listens to different opinion in patience, discuss an issue with the child, can reach consistent.
People often says: “ wife and mother and, the family is happy. ” wife and mother does not have kin, admit with kin photograph, direct connection is done not have on feeling, rise through connection of intermediary —— son however. Love son is about to love son's wife, otherwise “ son is done hard, the man is become hard. ”
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