Often hear somebody to say, hey, I am old, the body is young still, the heart is aged already.
Alleged heart is old, what say about is psychological age exceeded physiology age. Also have the result of professional test really, the psychological age of a lot of people is more than physiology age namely.
Actually this phenomenon exists generally all over the world, the psychological age of few somebody and physiology age are just the same, and former tower above is latter, also be normal phenomenon, although differ a lot of, also be not morbid state. So can need not because of the “ old ” of psychological age worry.
The discretion of psychological age, wait an element a moment with the heredity of a person, disposition, experience, environment closely related, get even the influence of the changeful element such as the mood of the near future, itself is not ” of noun of pathology of a “ , the ” of “ time parameter that is development of a psychology only.
” of “ psychology age just is a kind of indicative view, because psychological age does not have intelligence in that way stability, as ceaseless effort of the person, it can get adjust and be optimizinged.
The discretion of psychological age has advantages and disadvantages each, not be absolutely good mix bad OK and divisional. Psychological age of the person and physiology age should become roughly corresponding concern, but fall in the influence of different environment and education, idea gives developing individual difference and lopsided sex, so psychological age of the person, physiology age and intellective age are not completely synchronous development.
Person from be born to consenescence, should experience a long evolution in psychology and physiology respect metabolic process, physiology expands the corporeal base that is psychological development.
Children period: Highbrow it is the biggest advantage and defect. Like to be praised, always consider please another person, the evaluation with certain other people just can make you affirm his. Longing is comforted from what affection obtains to go up over there the family and support. The mood rises and fall big. Have strong curiosity to the thing, seek knowledge desire tall, plasticity is strong, good imitate; The study that lives in the society suits in constant be thwarted, but can not cause instant psychological shadow. Psychology lies the person of children period, simple and happy, like to enter all sorts of activities, driving, mind is quick, relatively hopeful, good illusion, not conservative, work complete by interest, do not have concept of fame and gain almost completely. Easy go to extremes, lack ego to protect consciousness; Have strong competitive desire, but can use effective calculation scarcely again when competition.
Teenage period: The contradictory conflict with inexpiable heart is right now the most apparent feature. Be like: The closedown sex and the contradiction that human association needs, contradiction of independent character and dependence, curious desire tall the contradiction of as contradictory as what identify the contradiction with small force, affection and reason, ideal and consciousness of actual contradictory, sex and ethic. Intense longing paddles his own canoe freedom is free and easy, but had not cast off the shadow that suffers other effect, seem to have “ ” of the 3rd eye at any time monitoring is worn you, your every act is in children period is to make specific other satisfactory, now is to let this “ ” of the 3rd eye is satisfactory. And actually, “ ” of the 3rd eye is the ideology such as the world outlook that the heart forms gradually, philosophy, viewpoint of value. Instinct and person are, reality and ideal, ego and exceed me, a variety of this contradictory anguish are the motivation that promotes character development. To responsibility, want to take on to long to escape again, to fame and gain, want to go after distain to be considered again. Be full of innovation spirit, brave, change more.
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